Nobody needs love more and gets it less than the unattractive woman. The ironic thing is that no woman is more difficult to "hustle." The first reason is that she doesn't believe a man when he makes a play for her. The second reason is that, even if she did, she doesn't know how to react to a man because she hasn't had much experience in playing the game of romance.

The attractive woman will set you up for the next thing to say by her positive response to what went before.

The not-so-beautiful woman very seldom learns, as does the plain woman, to use her weaknesses as the driving force to compensate in some other area. She seldom lets the emotion of rejection spur her onward. The tragic thing is that not only is the homely woman not good-looking, but she too willingly accepts her lack of looks as the judgment of her worth. She has no spirit.

If she did, she wouldn't really be unattractive. No woman with spirit can be.

The biggest thing to remember in your dealings with the unattractive woman is not to give her the impression that you personally have a romantic interest in her, unless you do. If you do, then remember that the key to keeping her is having patience and helping her to be the most attractive woman she can be, without making her painfully aware of what she never will achieve. If there is no romantic interest, make it clear, but concern yourself with her welfare anyway. Perhaps, if you reached back into the genetic grab bag, you wouldn't fare so well a second time and she would need to be kind to you.