You may rest assured that if the "not-so-smart" woman is good-looking, she will usually be shallow. The "not-so-smart" woman who is not good-looking may be quite deep. Depth is too often associated with intelligence. Depth is a function of the emotional capacity to be sensitive to one's own feelings or the feelings of others.

If she is good-looking, don't think that it really bothers her that she isn't considered intelligent. It doesn't. What sometimes does get to her, however, is that being "not-so-smart," she gets taken advantage of by men. If she is loved and feels secure, being told she needs guidance only adds to her feelings of femininity.

The two biggest factors to winning a "not-so-smart" woman are love and discipline. It's something like raising children. There is no way to get around the fact that your own superiority will be your downfall. There is no way for the genius of Einstein to compensate to a child for a playmate that deals with life on the same playful level. You must fit into her world, because she doesn't know any higher world really exists.